Stereotypes on men hair styles and Physical Appearance Liberty

By The Covert Blogger

I am what I believe show consistency between values, ethical-reasoning and actions develop positive-psychological states such as confidence, optimism, hope, and resilience in myself, and my mindset and philosophical-beliefs are based on liberty.  Because I value consistency in my personal, social, and religious life, I also value discovering consistent and principled applications, policies, and liberties.

I have my own unique style of knot tied by my hair a bun hair style.These are things i always hear from people in society who comment about my  appearance. Even well educated persons in our society have sick mentality comment a negatively or stereotypical on hair style or other physical appearances

That’s partly because there’s a lot of silly, useless information out there that confuses and as a society Stereotypical people usually try to push the stigmas – it matters how you perform, not how you look of hair styles.

Let me narrate you a comment of a man on my hair style i met him in a cafe of a local person of GB where i was with my friends , gossiping with each others in a pleasant mood, a man age of 40s with his young child sat on a chair next to us after some time he ask me in local language what type of a hair style you've made i thought he is pointing to another one surrounding me as his voice tune was confusing that he's talking to someone he knows very well, again he repeated what type of hair style you've made, why you tied your hair knot pointing me in a way that he is making fun of me, i asked from my friend is he is pointing me , my friend said yes then i replied with a smile to him, he laughed is negative sarcastic way chanting, again he asked what type of hair style you've made a very cheap way and said where are you from , i which town of hunza, i said i am from karimabad, even he asked in local language "menay ba?" a phrase which always used to asked to know the identity of any unknown person or to know father's name or tribes name etc Then he asked me will you go to your hometown in this appearance i.e hair style with knot, till that i had not take him much serious i replied to him that "no i don't as my father will no allow me" i replied him like that just to judge his views/ or to judge his reply as my father is well aware with my hair style and he never complains as my father knows my mental approach to different things.

 Then again he used very cheap,  negative-sarcastic, sick mentality, stereotypical, and vulgar words i am quoting his words in local language he said " nee karimabad r k gutay style ney eskin n desawinxz eitny giyachum eskinan dasiwanxz kithny giyachumn" Translation of these words of sick mentality approach  is " Go to your hometown in this hair style and girls surround you in roads of karimabad will inspire or attract in a way that many girls will follow you to interact or girls around flirt in a playful behavior intended to arouse seductive interests.

Now i am quite scrutinized for habits or mental approaches of such people who are well educated and remain concerned about physical appearance  or styles of others.  Such type of Conventionalism of Sick mentality approaches puts liberty and acceptance ahead of what is principled and right, as these stereotypes that if anyone is makes any style of his hair is to attract girls, hair styles or other styles are not necessary for flirt purpose opposite gender, even any boy or a girl are making any unique style,  to impress  each other even then others are not supposed to criticize in negative-sarcastic way, or vulgar way which promote bigotry thoughts,  predisposition thoughts, and dogmatism thoughts in society. It is extreme shameful to such narrow minded persons who always promote such dogmatism thoughts and always use bigotry comments on others, i wonder why are such people are always concerned about others individuals liberties and physical appearance/styles is quite individual/private matter of a person and no one is supposed to comment in such dogmatism/ bigotry ways.

Such narrow minded persons with extreme conventionalize thoughts are curse of society as that “unwanted conduct” which has the “purpose or effect of violating the dignity of a person” and of “creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment and this kind of vague terminology is by definition harmful to liberty, because it creates a certain degree of legal uncertainty and consequently a feeling of suppression.

There is also no longer any intent needed for any physical appearance/styles  to be wrong, for the clause not only speaks of the purpose, but also about the mere – unintended – effect.

 As soon a person takes offence at someone else’s words or deeds, he has now more legal means at his disposal to limit others in their liberties than ever before. Yet while the freedom Appearance/styles is a expression of any person which never intends to harm any one, and no one has right to pass bigotry words, for everyone is offended by something. The message of these sick mentality persons with stereotypes and entrench judgments is that certain persons are too feeble for inveterate and insular behaviors . In the name of not being offended by such views and habits, of those who call themselves disciplined and civilized, an accumulation of narrow mindedness are becoming a part of the our societies and promoting bigotry in our societies.